寻找着某样东西?

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  1. 塔玛拉@ Tamaraniac

    我对这个问题的主要的想法是,每个人都是深的人以某种方式,而一些“”肤浅”,”行为可能是不健康的,像沉迷在喜欢/追随者(我觉得有想发展你的下面之间的差异/有online friends/have a good amount of people appreciate your art and wanting 5 gazillion followers) as long as you’re happy and not hurting anyone, you should be able to do what ever you want and not be judged for it. Whether that’s buying books or taking pretty pictures or spending time cooking food that will look good on your insta feed.

  2. Dulcie @暴女读

    我认为,在某种程度上,每个人都是肤浅的,浅薄 - 它只是在我们人类的本性。我觉得每个人都是非常深,感情丰富的人 - 我想没有人是完全一样的,他们似乎,无聊或仅仅关心自己的外表!话说,我想他们看起来(不只是外表,但他们的整体共鸣/审美型的东西)的方式大家关心,所以在每个人的方式有肤浅的元素。只要你高兴做你喜欢什么 - 这是最重要的事情!

    丹尼斯|该Bibliolater

  3. CG @皮之怒

    机房工程,我很喜欢这篇文章,我100%与凯塞曼西方的报价一致。老实说,我认为每个人都有深入的,我不知道,如果你知道纽约人的人类呢?你可能因为没有大家?呵呵。但他我爱怎么只需任何人,每个人的照片,他们总是有一个故事。它证明,每一个。单。人。有。一个。 story. Ergo how can they be shallow? I think some people CAN be selfish and oblivious, of course. And they can let the ugly in their life rule. But if a person cares about not being shallow, than I’m pretty sure they won’t be. Also: I totally like how you said it’s okay to care about pretty things and all that. I HATE how it’s seen as shallow to like things like romancey books or pink or pretty things or glitter. Like. No. That’s just horrible thinking and needs to stop.
    好了,所以基本上我漫步于无事。的xD但是你的职位是完美的,我完全喜欢你说的话!

  4. 以勒邓

    我认为,事实上,大家都知道,它可能是在字符的装置浅表或缺乏深度,你是不是。我担心这个问题的时候,也对许多其他的事情,但我意识到,一个肤浅的人不会认为这样的深度思考。我说不要太担心,但后来我是个伪君子。因此,保持令人担忧,它只是意味着你一个人<3

  5. 凯拉

    我认为,我们人类是高度复杂,有很多层,我不认为这是可能的,因为我想大家都有深入一个人的存在完全浅。There’s going to be something that the media has labelled as “superficial” that we probably care about – like I do care about having a pretty Instagram page and I love pink, girly things to wear or cute things for my room and perhaps that does make me shallow, but at the same I don’t think it does because if there are things that bring us happiness and things that we关心关于它不是的重点我的生活,也许这是好吗?就像,我一直认为是浅薄的人谁是超级集中在外观和金钱,这是他们所想的一切,谈,他们可以不与任何其他困扰?但也许他们有一个有趣的爱好或东西,他们喜欢做不围绕这一点,即使如果这能给她们带来的快乐,并根据他们的出现和物质财富,他们不评论别人肯定也没关系?我没有真正确定,这是定义一个很难的事情!

  6. 娜塔莉

    我很高兴,你发这个帖子。Whenever I, myself, or anyone else gets called ‘shallow’ and ‘superficial’ for enjoying things like make up, fashion and get criticised for how hard I work on how my instagram looks and that each row matches and looks the best it can, I am filled with an uncontrollable rage. I don’t think that it’s a negative thing for someone to enjoy the way that something looks and to get a kick out of having bomb-ass eyeliner. I don’t think it’s an awful thing for someone to go to an art gallery and want to enjoy the way the art looks without feeling the need to disect every stroke and colour. Just because that someone likes these things doesn’t mean that they don’t lack ‘depth’. Every human being comes with their personality and are extremely complicated people. I don’t think anyone is ’empty-headed’ and I think it’s extremely damaging that people use the words shallow and superficial to describe people, forcing women in particular to shy away from and hide the things that they love because it’s not ‘deep’. Great post, Xandra! Loved it <3

  7. Jaquetta钱布利

    我认为,称某人肤浅是非常不公正的。我敢肯定,这一切都有事做什么的人认为“正常”。然而,整个概念是完全矛盾,因为如果你恰巧是人谁喜欢搞事喜欢化妆和社交媒体的人会经常给你打电话的空气头或“基本”和那些他们认为有“深度”他们叫谁他们的艺术或创造性。然而,在相同的情况下谁穿的化妆和一个人喜欢娘娘腔的东西可以被看作是创意或“正常”由于社会和人谁喜欢不搞那些事阐明被视为“怪异”或“社会标准别扭”通过的那些完全相同的标准相反的位置。老实说,我相信每个人都有深度和创造性连胜。每个人都只是喜欢各种不同的创意。这里没有一个化妆师,做自己的妆容“精确”相同。而且每个谁拥有广阔的社交媒体下列人士都有它不同的原因。 Someone may have a fashion and beauty blog, yet like to write poetry in their free time. Another person may have a poetry blog, and do makeup in their free time. Secondly, you can’t predict whether or not a person is superficial based on their social media, especially if you don’t know them personally. Of course, if you aren’t interested in makeup or clothes you would think a beauty/fashion blog is boring. That doesn’t mean the person is boring or “Superficial” it just means you have opposing interests and people need to learn to accept that not everyone is the same and even if someone likes the same things it doesn’t mean they are the same person or “Superficial”

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